Sunday, June 30, 2013

What I did on Friday night...

It's getting closer and closer to the demo on my kitchen and all a sudden I got a bit sad.  Tim knew how I love purple.  I wear purple, I sing purple, I eat and smell purple.  Well, you get the gist of it.  So one of  the first things he did when we bought the house eleven years ago was surprise me with the offer of a purple kitchen.  If the name purple scares you, try to think lilac...anyway he took his time on it (three weeks) cleaning and priming and painting and I loved it.  Here are two pictures that I stitched together to give you a panoramic view...

I'm not the best at photo manipulation, but once again you get the idea...

Over the years we had lots of fun in the kitchen, fixing coffee, dancing Three Stooges and James Brown style on the newly waxed slipperiness of the vinyl flooring. We seldom ate in the kitchen, choosing to chow down in front of big screen in the living room, so the kitchen was always the site for craziness.

We bird watched and deer watched from the kitchen windows and he cooked his first real meal in the purple kitchen. We both were pleased with the purple kitchen and just were never ready to repaint it.

So it was sorta bringing me down that I had to destroy all of this for my kitchen update.  In an effort to way goodbye to the kitchen and have some fun at the same time, I decided to graffiti the cabinets and the wall that are going to be removed...

This is the first thing that I did.  Oddly enough, it felt wrong to write on my walls.  I thought it would be freeing, or something but it really was more of a sad goodbye to start out with.   I didn't stop, though, I had other things to say...

We always talked about blooming where you were planted and were happy to say that we felt like we had.  Tim was a musician and was always touched deeply by the deaths of other musicians.  With that in mind I honored a few of our favorites on this cabinet door.

We prayed in the kitchen many time and were never hesitant to give the Lord credit for all the wonderful things he had done for us.  Some of you may know that hubby was conservative in his political views, so to say that the Lord was praised, but the president was not is a very true statement.  Even though the self imposed stress of politics may have contributed to Tim's early heart attack, we were very happy together...


By the time I got all around the kitchen with my markers, I had cried quite a bit, but I realized that I am still happy.  Happy for the privilege of spending so many years with the man that painted my kitchen. Happy because I am anticipating many more years of joy in my new kitchen.  The years to come will bring new friends to my table and new experiences to my kitchen.  How can you not be grateful for a life like mine.  I have wonderful sisters and good friends and a hopeful positive attitude.

So in closing this post, I have to let you know that I am ready to say goodbye to the purple kitchen.  I realize now that I'm not saying goodbye to the memories of the wonderful things that happened here.  I'm moving forward and looking forward to wonderful things happening in my new kitchen.

Happy Sunday to all.  Stay tuned for more pictures of the remodel.  I'm sure there will be crazy things happening...

8 comments:

Peri said...

This is a great post! Glad you drew on the walls! Good comments bring great memories...some sad one creep in but most are bright and happy! Rock on and we can't wait to see the new colors in the kitchen!

vivian said...

I agree with above, a great post! bittersweet changes. It'll be fun for you to get a new kitchen!
I'll be back to see what youre doing.
have a great week susan
xoxo
vivian

NanaDiana said...

You're right -you're not really saying goodbye because you have laid claim to all those memories and they are part of you. I am thrilled for you and what a neat way to "let go" of the old and welcome in the new. Blessings- xo Diana

Countryfolk Keepsakes said...

This post made me cry. Both happy and sad tears.
I do think you should save one cabinet door and tuck it away. ♥

As far as Tim not praising the president... Between you, me, the others who read you blog AND the NSA, he isn't being praised by most across the board these days. (Well, expect for the media and Hollywood) ;> )

Love you and thinking of you. ♥

Sandy Mastroni said...

laughter and tears .... I love that you did this
I hope you will KEEP a door or two [with your writing ]
maybe keep them all .... and paint on some
don't throw it all out !

Susan said...

Thanks for the suggestions to keep one of the doors! I hadn't even thought of that and today I told them to save the door that says "bloom where you're planted" We said that so much that it's the perfect memento. xoxoxo

Countryfolk Keepsakes said...

Cindy said...

For some reason this post made me get teary-eyed. I love that you are moving forward, not in a way that leaves Tim behind but in a way that honors your life with him even in his absence. I'm looking forward to see the transformation of your remodel!